as explained to you yesterday in the alliance setting up an alliance is not a quick thing it takes time and dedication, alliances can take up to a year to become established, running an alliance isn't just about been boss or having a title it really takes a lot of setting up and expanding. I hope you do well and manage to stick it out however my advice would be to enjoy the company of a smaller group establishing themselves as they where in your situation.
I guess your right. I mean I am the only person though.